Step 1
Wind down the room
- Turn off screens and loud background noise.
- Dim the lights and shift to books, coloring, or puzzles.
- Give a short preview that bedtime is starting.
Try this line
“We're starting our cozy bedtime time now.”
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Step 2
Run the hygiene routine
- Do bath or a quick wash-up.
- Brush teeth and use the toilet or change the pull-up.
- Keep the same order each night so the routine feels automatic.
Try this line
“First teeth, then pajamas.”
Step 3
Set up sleep comfort
- Change into pajamas right away after hygiene.
- Choose one or two sleep comfort items.
- Set out water or the night-light if they are part of the routine.
Try this line
“It's pajama time. You can step in, or I will help you.”
Step 4
Keep connection calm
- Read one to three short books or sing one lullaby.
- Decide the number of books or songs before you start.
- Repeat the limit instead of reopening negotiations.
Try this line
“We're reading two books tonight.”
Step 5
Use the same lights-out ritual
- Tuck in, hug, and say the same short goodnight phrase.
- Turn on the night-light if needed and leave the room the same way.
- Keep any check-in brief so lights-out still means bedtime is over.
Try this line
“I love you. You are safe. I'll see you in the morning.”
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